Genital Chastity.
What is it?
Chastity is when men, or women or those outside of the binary, wear a chastity cage or belt. This can be done for play, it can be done long term on the daily. It can be done alone or with a “key holder” who decides when you can take the cage off, if you earn that privilege.
Chastity is not always inherently sexual even though it incudes our genitals. It can be done for sexual reasons, you get off on being in chastity. It can also be about humiliation, cuckolding, or about proving something to / serving your dominant.
Like everything in kink, it looks different for different people.
What does it look like:
So a chastity cage comes in many different styles. You have plastic ones, silicone, stainless steel. You have ones that flatten the cock completly, you have ones that include sounds. There are electronic ones with timers and electronic locks. You can attach weights to chastity cages, you can use massage wands over them for increased sensation. Some involve the balls more than others.
Chastity belts are more usually for cis females but can be worn by cis men also. A chastity belt covers the genitals fully and has a lock on the front to be removed by key. They are usually quite bulky and heavy.
The biggest takeaway to learn about chastity is cages are not one size fits all. I will no longer supply chastity cages for sessions as I found myself purchasing many and having them fit one out of ten clients. This just isn’t feasible long term. There is such a range on the market I cannot stock or travel with them all. So it is best to procure your own for a session or you can tip me to procure one for you.
The way a chastity cage fits matters on how much you want it to “disappear’ the penis. Some compress it more than others. Do you want one comfortable for long term wear or just for play?
I always recommend for those wishing to utilise one long term to get a custom made steel one. They are the best as they can be easily cleaned and will last long term.
The plastic hard ones are fine for more casual play.
The important things to focus on when looking for one is:
Does it fit well without any pinching or chafing? If you have a foreskin this is most important, you don’t want your skin to be pinched inside the cage.
Can I get it on and off easily?
Can it be safely removed in an emergency if I lose the key?
Does the penis fit inside it without needing to be bent too far?
I am always happy to direct you with places to buy, guides to using a cage.
Important things to remember is even if you are in a chastity/key holding relationship with someone you still need to remove the cage biweekly for hygiene reasons. It is okay to remove it for medical appointments etc. That does not negate a dynamic. A good dominant will press the importance of this on you.
Enquire for my custom key holding rates.
Once you’ve answered all of these questions, gotten to ordering, then it’s time to play?
Good sites to purchase a chastity cage:
Lucrezia de sade.
Eagle Leather.
Max Black.
Sax Black.
Extreme Restraints.
Chastity Cage Australia.
