Navigating Swingers Parties: A Comprehensive Guide
How do Swingers Parties work?
Swingers parties seem like this shadowy and mysterious world but its really just a place where open minded people gather to play. Most parties are either held in a commercial venue or private home in Melbourne. The ones I take clients to are commercial venues as they are more discrete. Parties are broken into two categories, players parties which are for men, women, and couples, and couples parties which are couples and single women only.
Some are kink focused or more gang-bang focused as well. (Some parties are also open to bi male or female play and also trans/gender diverse people. There is also a female only party held in Melbourne.)
What kind of people attend swingers parties?
Swingers are just like anyone else, you get all sorts of people. It is a warm and inviting environment.
Usually parties skew towards an older range, from late 20’s to 60’s. You get people of all body types, skin colours, and so on. There is an event and venue for every kind of person.
What if i have never attended a swingers party before?
If you’ve never been to a swingers party before, it’s important to approach it with an open mind and clear communication. Consent and clear communication is key.
You see parties are this wonderful space to explore fantasies. Maybe you have always wanted to have a threesome, participate in a gang-bang, watch some live porn or be watched. All things that can occur at parties.
But they are also unpredictable. Some people contact me presuming I am the one organising/running parties or that I am being paid by the organisers to attend. I am certainly not. I have no control over who is going to attend on the evening nor do I know the ratio for that evening. When I walk into a party with a client I know just as much about how the night will go as the client does, and thats zero.
A party is certainly what you make it, if you enquire and book with an open mind and open expectations then you will have a wonderful evening. At the end of the day, the only thing booking for a party secures you is my sexual services and attending a party.
But oh, the amount of naughty fun we can have there is a list a mile long!
I always make sure to introduce my client to people, check in about how they are feeling throughout the night, and adjust things as much I can to their comfort level. I want you to have an amazing night, but it is also so much what you make it.
What do commercial venues include? where are they?
The commercial venues I direct clients to are in Collingwood, Seaford, Melb CBD, and Elsternwick.
Each venue is different but they are usually a similar set up to a nightclub. You need to scan your ID at the door at most of them.
They have lockers you can pop your belongings into for security. They have a bar for a drink, maybe a dance area and pool table, sitting area for socialising, some porn playing on a TV, spa, sauna, some have a pool. Some have a smokers area also.
Playrooms are usually upstairs and include a mix of open and closed rooms, which means some rooms are a large open space with beds geared at group orgy play, where people can watch others play. Then there are other spaces with smaller room with doors where you can lock yourself in with your play mates.
Some spaces also may have sex swings or Kink play equipment spaces like a St Andrews cross or spanking bench.
What should I do to prepare? What do I wear?
You don’t need to contact organisers yourself, you don’t need to stand in a corner awkwardly being the newbie at a party. You just need to contact me and I’ll help guide you through the whole process and throughout the night.
What to wear:
Business casual to walk into a party and most parties are then dress down on arrival into a towel, underwear, or kinky clothes.
I usually wear a sexy lingerie set and lace robe! For the men, clean nice jocks or boxers is fine or just a towel. If you want to fancy it up with a jock strap or leather underwear or a cock ring, go for it! But it is not mandatory.
When attending a party with me for a booking we will organise to meet nearby the venue to chat about your desires for the evening. You will pay me the remainder of the fee and then we will head to and enter the venue together.
What information do I require from you before we go?
Have you attended Swingers Parties before? What kind/style of party?
What are you looking to get out of the experience?
Is there a specific fantasy you want to explore, or just try something new?
Do you just want us to play together and let others watch, do you want us to play with others together or separately? (Some people want to pick other people for me to play with and just watch me, which is always fun and debauched, others want to go off and do their own thing once in the venue, which is also fine!)
Do you want to incorporate any kink into your booking?
what actually happens at parties?
Each party is different. Even if you go to the same theme night (say a couples themed party) two weeks in a row, each night will be completely different to the next. Yes there are regulars to the scene, but each night brings a different crowd and vibe.
You may see couple playing by themselves enjoying being watched, couples swapping with other couples, group of 2/3/4/5 or more people playing together in an orgy or Gangbang. Some people may attend just to socialise or make use of the spa. Some people may engage in kinky activities in a party.
Some parties may have queer and trans play to them also, there are some event nights themed to this if that is what you want to explore.
Go in eyes wide open and enjoy whatever the night brings you but grab it by the horns. Your fun is what you make it.
Do you attend parties with couples too?
Yes I do!
The rate is the same to be your guide at a party if you are a couple looking to explore the scene or a single male or single female.
My services are open to women, men, trans and gender diverse people, queer people, and people with disabilities.
I am there to be your guide, companion, date, no matter your gender.
